Ditch the Drama and the BS…..
Is an Elopement right for you?
Elopements vs. Weddings: Why I’m All About Those Fun, Funky, and Fabulous Elopements
Hey, lovebirds! 💕 Ready for a wild ride through the world of weddings and elopements? Buckle up, because we’re diving headfirst into the delightful differences between these two love-packed adventures and why elopements might just be your ticket to a stress-free, super-fun, and totally unforgettable day!
The Classic Wedding: Big Bash Vibes 🎉
So, you’re dreaming of a wedding with all the bells and whistles, huh? Think of this as the blockbuster movie of love stories. We’ve got:
Guest List Galore: Aunt Edna from Idaho, your third-grade teacher, and everyone in between.
Epic Venues: From grand ballrooms to dreamy outdoor gardens.
Traditions on Traditions: Tossing the bouquet, first dances, and a cake so tall you need a ladder to cut it.
Weddings are awesome, don’t get me wrong. They’re like a big, love-infused party where everyone you’ve ever known comes together to celebrate YOU. But here’s the tea: They can also be a bit… overwhelming. There’s a lot of planning, a lot of people, and let’s face it, sometimes a lot of stress.
The Elopement: Intimate Adventure Awaits 🚀
Now, let’s talk elopements. This is the indie film of weddings—full of heart, character, and unforgettable moments. Here’s what makes elopements stand out:
Less Is More: Think cozy, think intimate. It’s just you, your partner, and maybe a handful of your nearest and dearest.
Adventure Time: You can tie the knot on a mountaintop, in a cozy forest, or even your favorite city rooftop.
Stress-Free Zone: No seating charts, no managing 100+ RSVPs, just pure, unfiltered love and fun.
For some couples, an elopement is the way to go. Maybe you’re not into big crowds, or you want to save some cash for an epic honeymoon. Or maybe you just want your day to be about YOU and not about pleasing everyone else. Whatever your reason, elopements can be an absolute dream.
Why I’m Head Over Heels for Elopements 💖
As a photographer, capturing love in all its forms is my jam. But there’s something extra special about elopements that gets my creative juices flowing:
Intimate Moments: With fewer people around, I get to capture those candid, raw, and ridiculously romantic moments. The look in your eyes, the happy tears, the goofy laughs—every shot is magic.
Creative Freedom: Elopements give us the freedom to get funky and fun with our photos. Wanna climb a tree? Splash in a river? Dance in the street? Let’s do it!
Real Connections: It’s just you and your love story, and I get to be a part of that in such a personal way. It’s an honor, really.
And hey, speaking of love stories, can we talk about how amazing Pride Month was? 🌈 Celebrating love in all its beautiful, vibrant, and diverse forms is something that fills my heart with joy. I’m sad to see Pride Month go, but the spirit of love, acceptance, and equality carries on every single day. To all my LGBTQ+ couples, your love is fierce, fabulous, and always worth celebrating. ❤️
So, whether you’re planning the wedding of your dreams or considering an elopement for a more laid-back, adventurous vibe, remember that your day should be as unique and fabulous as your love. And if you need someone to capture every amazing moment, you know where to find me. 😉
Stay funky, stay fabulous, and keep spreading that love!
Til Next Time!
Caity CJ
Proud Owner of the Bohde Collective
